Some context, girl from the gym, she's 21 Im in my 30s. There's intense physical attraction and we get along very well, but the other day she started doing this weird shit calling me "bitch". Kinda like how girls call each other "bitch". I told her it was fucken weird and it doesn't offend me, its just weird... like me calling a girl Im dating "bro" or "dude", a girl calling me "bitch" just kills the romantic / flirty vibe. Am I being overly sensitive and I should just expect this from how a 21 year old talks? Or maybe Im reading too much into this and just need to calm the fuck down? Lmk your thoughts. Screenshot attached from recent texts for added context. I had debated whether to call it out over text but figured it might be too much drama, so figured Id just say it in person. Does it come off as flimsy? (side note she's recovering from the flu, hence the 'how are you' messages, even though she never responded to the last message)

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If you didn’t do anything else beyond these texts then I think you’re fine. Just change the subject. Going forward unless she’s calling you it aggressively don’t take offense. You can also try calling her a name back like “hoe” or something but obviously tread lightly. And only do it if she calls you it don’t just say it out of no where

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Thanks, I like that advice. Deleted my other post because I think Im just overanalyzing at this point. Appreciate it

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