Girl Im dating w/ some age gap - Im I being overly sensitive?
Some context, girl from the gym, she's 21 Im in my 30s. There's intense physical attraction and we get along very well, but the other day she started doing this weird shit calling me "bitch". Kinda like how girls call each other "bitch". I told her it was fucken weird and it doesn't offend me, its just weird... like me calling a girl Im dating "bro" or "dude", a girl calling me "bitch" just kills the romantic / flirty vibe. Am I being overly sensitive and I should just expect this from how a 21 year old talks?
Or maybe Im reading too much into this and just need to calm the fuck down? Lmk your thoughts. Screenshot attached from recent texts for added context. I had debated whether to call it out over text but figured it might be too much drama, so figured Id just say it in person. Does it come off as flimsy? (side note she's recovering from the flu, hence the 'how are you' messages, even though she never responded to the last message)
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If you didn’t do anything else beyond these texts then I think you’re fine. Just change the subject. Going forward unless she’s calling you it aggressively don’t take offense. You can also try calling her a name back like “hoe” or something but obviously tread lightly. And only do it if she calls you it don’t just say it out of no where
Personally seems weird not a red flag but just odd. I wouldn't want to be called bitch because I'm not a girl I'm a guy. Also it's like her calling you buddy. Like I'm your buddy? No I'm the guy you want to fuck not your buddy. I dont think your over thinking . It's natural that you think it's odd. But you can set a boundary without being overdramatic, just tell her" I don't really like that", and honestly you don't have to have a reason. And if she complains and makes a big deal of it then that's is a big red flag. And another way to to make her stop is to joke about how weird it is that she does that.
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Lol. she called you a bitch and you just took it? And when she points out that you ignored the text and you said "Yeah because you know i don't like it". Well, fucking do something about it man. and she says "It wasn't nice :(". She's happily walking all over you and you're just taking it. Really bad.
"I dare you to come say that to me at my face". She is doing this to provoke a reaction from you. Get you to be more dominant and choke her and punish her. You're walking on thin ice here