I approached this girl at the gym who I’ve seen quite often, wanting to get to know her. It worked out well cuz we were waiting for the same machine and we ended up working in with each other. There was good banter and it made sense for me to suggest that we hangout sometime. So I did and got her number. We started texting and then she just stopped answering; it’s been a couple days already. Do I bother to double text her (if so, what would I say), or do I just wait to start a new conversation when I see her at the gym?
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How was the vibe in person? I ask because based on her first two replies, she is clearly someone who enjoys playful banter a lot. She tested you twice and you backed down both times. She swung the door open to be playful and when you didn't give it back to her, she apparently moved on. My natural personality is this way so when girls come out the gate like that, I don't hold back.
When she said 'the guy that walks stiff?', you could've come back with 'I knew you were watching me walk away'
Even after that, when she said 'truth hurts' you could've said 'Kind of like the truth that you gave me your number, so shush' This would've shown her you will give it back to her plus the 'so shush' is a soft test for her to see if she likes being put in her place and given direction.
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Ah got you man, makes perfect sense. To answer your question, the vibe in person was very good banter and a lot of laughing. So yea I wasn’t very consistent from person to text. What would you do now? Double text?
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Yeah, I would give it a shot. Maybe be more playful and borderline troll her to see if that's really her thing. Maybe something like 'Still got that smart mouth? I need a new project to work on'