i hate this phrase, not sure if i should treat it differently because we hooked up already but almost every girl who uses this on me...never actually follows through. should i let this lead go cold and wait for her to text me or be more proactive in locking down a potential time to meet. couple things to note, we went out once and hooked up same night, she said after sex she felt "intimidated" by me but she likes that i'm dominant in bed, and also made it a point to say she doesn't get attached easily. not sure if any of this changes how i should approach this. maybe she just saw me as a one night stand.
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I ́ll let you know what? There is no "I ́ll let you know" , she ́s messing around possibly and if that one dude flakes your basically next in line as a backup
Move on cause she already gave you the answer with she doesn ́t get attached...
It was a ONS but if you can flip it then do it...mirroring it back
101 Posts (+62), 140 Cmts (+29)
your response seems a bit too aggressive no? how do i call it out without seeming butt hurt
5 Posts (+1), 19 Cmts (+0)
It ́s not "aggressive" at all if you phrase it right as mentioned from avilench
You don ́t call it out, for what? Are you butt hurt? Bruh...
Don ́t respond and move on to the next until she comes around & let ́s you know if she does then you can see when you are free otherwise everything will be on her terms.... ...also an option
18 Posts (+12), 76 Cmts (+21)
A possible route is to just "thumbs up" her message. Address it, but don't feed into it. This is probably her trying to come across like she doesn't care as much as those first couple of texts would hint at. In my experience the "I'll let you know" response has actually led to them following through as long as I address it but don't push, but usually after about 3 days to a week.