Context: Met on Hinge, had one facetime. On the facetime she told me she's bi and doesn't believe in monogamy. Supposed to have a date tonight but she hasn't responded to my engage txt (1 1/2 hours ago). Yea, I know she could still come through, but from my experience at this point it's highly unlikely she does. I want to say "I didn't take you for that type of girl" or something to that effect.

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avilench . Avatar

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Your confirmation is sub optimal man. Follow the formula I give in the product and your flake rate will be lower

You can say “still good for that walk?”

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So we rescheduled and she flaked again (today), couldn't believe it. Especially after she confirmed day of. I called her around 7 and she didn't pick up.

How would you handle this?

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avilench . Avatar

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I would say “I genuinely didn’t take you for the flakey type”

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Thanks, I've read through the formula in the product. Is my day of txt poor?

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avilench . Avatar

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Yes, I’m not a big fan of it tbh. Sounds like something my mom would text me the day of our lunch

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