Want to be more aggressive here (Date flake)
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17 Cmts
6y ago
Context: Met on Hinge, had one facetime. On the facetime she told me she's bi and doesn't believe in monogamy.
Supposed to have a date tonight but she hasn't responded to my engage txt (1 1/2 hours ago).
Yea, I know she could still come through, but from my experience at this point it's highly unlikely she does.
I want to say "I didn't take you for that type of girl" or something to that effect.
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She seemed genuinely excited to meet you, have her number, confirmation day of and time to meet . That tends to be a good to go. Very odd she'd ghost and still respond to you. Did you delete her off Hinge? How does she have Hinge and not her phone? I wouldn't waste my time on her but your call.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Your confirmation is sub optimal man. Follow the formula I give in the product and your flake rate will be lower
You can say “still good for that walk?”
55 Posts (+9), 169 Cmts (+7)
So we rescheduled and she flaked again (today), couldn't believe it. Especially after she confirmed day of. I called her around 7 and she didn't pick up.
How would you handle this?
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
I would say “I genuinely didn’t take you for the flakey type”
55 Posts (+9), 169 Cmts (+7)
Thanks, I've read through the formula in the product. Is my day of txt poor?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yes, I’m not a big fan of it tbh. Sounds like something my mom would text me the day of our lunch