I played it off with humour, but what do you guys think? Tbh I find it a bit disrespectful given our back story. For context, I matched this girl in February, we had good convo but we couldn’t arrange the date because our schedules didn’t match and then it dragged on and she started to avoid it. She eventually ghosted me but I revived it a few days ago and our convo has been good. This one threw me off a bit lol. Ain’t happened before. Maybe I’m overthinking it, but the fact that she avoided a date before, but I was persistent, then she says this, tells me she’s not truly interested like that, since she was very picky on where we go for the date as well, when most girls don’t care and will just meet up for some basic stuff. I’m contemplating ditching this one tbh, I don’t tolerate dumb shit like this and it’s been a hassle to meet up with her anyway. I just didnt want to come off butthurt, but I ended up calling her out saying she was disrespectful and unmatched her on the app. On to the next one.
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Of course not. You think I don’t know this girl lost interest? It started off good then as weeks went on it was clear she was playing me by avoiding the date.
The insult just tops it off to confirm it all. But I wanted to get feedback since this was a first time I’ve ever had this happen. Anyway I’m here for advice so if you ain’t got any productive feedback then what we doing here?
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Bro, no disrespect to you. Only thing productive you can do now is delete here, learn from you mistakes and onto the next one. Never message a girl for months without taking her out, set up a date within one or two weeks, if she's always refusing/ not available next don't waste your time.
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All good bro.
Your right and I did that. Unmatched her on the app and called her out. The last thing I said to her is attached.
For context, since I didn’t include the full exchange here, she said she’s down to meet finally if we can plan something, but after that comment I can’t take a girl out when I’ve had to jump through hoops and insults.
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