Is this a shit test or just disrespect?
I played it off with humour, but what do you guys think? Tbh I find it a bit disrespectful given our back story.
For context, I matched this girl in February, we had good convo but we couldn’t arrange the date because our schedules didn’t match and then it dragged on and she started to avoid it. She eventually ghosted me but I revived it a few days ago and our convo has been good. This one threw me off a bit lol. Ain’t happened before. Maybe I’m overthinking it, but the fact that she avoided a date before, but I was persistent, then she says this, tells me she’s not truly interested like that, since she was very picky on where we go for the date as well, when most girls don’t care and will just meet up for some basic stuff.
I’m contemplating ditching this one tbh, I don’t tolerate dumb shit like this and it’s been a hassle to meet up with her anyway. I just didnt want to come off butthurt, but I ended up calling her out saying she was disrespectful and unmatched her on the app. On to the next one.
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Anybody? For clarity I called her out and basically cut her off, but I’m interested in hearing others feedback. I’ve asked some close friends and they said it is disrespectful what she said, but she was also responding frequently and the chat was good other than that.
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"I'm obviously joking. I'm sexy and I know it. What evenings are you free next to admire this ugliness from close distance and drooling over?"
😂 that’s pretty good.
I’ve not texted her for a few days, btw the last exchanges are at the bottom of this thread in case you didn’t see it. I don’t know if my response was a bit abrupt, I just really don’t want to be spending time with somebody who’s not really up for it. Then it kinda becomes a situation where she’s basically saying “ok I’ve given you a chance to impress me now what?”
What is your personal opinion on the comment she made, and what kind of tone to set if I do reengage? It’s the first time it’s ever happened, usually I’m good with banter but when you factor in the ghosting she done weeks ago, it makes you think twice.
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"I'm not worried one bit. Hope you're quite charming as well"
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Bro, she's playing you and went ahead and insulted you. Her text buddy, you really believe that you schedules didn't match in two months? come on...
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Of course not. You think I don’t know this girl lost interest? It started off good then as weeks went on it was clear she was playing me by avoiding the date.
The insult just tops it off to confirm it all. But I wanted to get feedback since this was a first time I’ve ever had this happen. Anyway I’m here for advice so if you ain’t got any productive feedback then what we doing here?
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Bro, no disrespect to you. Only thing productive you can do now is delete here, learn from you mistakes and onto the next one. Never message a girl for months without taking her out, set up a date within one or two weeks, if she's always refusing/ not available next don't waste your time.