I want to soft close. But the investment is one sided and like most of my conversations it's turning into an interview. What do I do?
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I want to soft close. But the investment is one sided and like most of my conversations it's turning into an interview. What do I do?
27 Posts (+2), 37 Cmts (+2)
This was what I said and the response. Looks like a good soft close, but unfortunately she's under 21 and I don't have a place of my own so i have to stick with more "platonic" date ideas
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Keep moving it forward. Still not ready for the hard close. Ask her if she likes wine, if you want a wine date or cocktails or whatever.
27 Posts (+2), 37 Cmts (+2)
I said earlier today, "Do you like coffee" (she's 19), she said "Yes", I asked what her schedule is like next week a few hours ago, she hasn't responded yet.
Logistically, I'm at home with mom and dad right now. This is a problem for any date I set up, and worse if alcohol is involved. I have a car, but I'm job searching and can't move out just yet.