Had a great first date in corner of cosy candlelit bar - great banter, laughter, flirting and very similar interests. Lot of investment from her side - plenty questions from her. Talked for three hours. Then hugged and parted ways. Texted her I got home safe and checked if she did (she mentioned it when parting ways) Next day at 1pm I sent “Name, thanks for a great night last night, I enjoyed your company. I would like to see you again if you’re interested” To which she replied “me too, yeah that would be fun 😊” Hours later I said “cool, let me know when you’re free :)” It’s been over a full day and there’s no reply. What would you do? I understand she’s busy with work like me, and may not know when she’s free but I generally like a reply at least. Since I have first chatted to her online we would send one message a day so she is a very slow texter if that’s anything to go by.
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Me: “ah nice hope they don’t go too hard on you with the return home interrogation questions”
“Haha, it should be good if our first date is anything to go by :)”
“What’s the new job btw?”
Her: “just another university job but doing educational programming instead 😊”
I’ll admit I was not in the right frame of mind (just got back from good date with other girl) and texting is very beta hence why she ignored the first two things I said. Should I keep the convo going and re-engage next week closer to our scheduled date?
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Don’t wait a week, every couple days is long enough, this doesn’t mean talking to her all day, just a few simple texts some banter back and fourth and you’ll be good
Only bring the date up a day before the actual date and then again on the date to make sure things are still good