Hi lads, Just went around to this hot girls house from Hinge to “spoon” Turned up she was wearing nothing but a baggy T-shirt and lace panties that I could see clearly, quite slutty. I was there on her bed for about 1hr, she was on her phone a lot but we vibed while we got closer to each other -I had my hand around her at one point. She then suddenly hit me with “I’m gonna go to sleep” and ordered me a Uber. I tried to go in for the kiss before the Uber turned up, which she said “ I don’t feel well” and turned the other way The Uber notification came saying it was outside, I said “kiss me” which she said “no” I said “ah okay” then swiftly left for the Uber. What would you do next here? I think fucked up by not escalating quick enough. She was like a 9.5/10 party girl type. Annoying cos I packed a tie in my bag that I didn’t get to tie her up with ahah. What would you do/text here?
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I usually go quite slow the first time to make sure we vibe fully and build up to it as much as possible, then from there on out change it up a bit. Is this bad game?
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You tell us... did you in fact vibe? Did you build it up?
What "build up" feels like: she keeps trying to kiss you, she's grinding against you, you can feel the pattern of her panties on your thigh
What "no vibe" feels like: she's on her phone the whole time, you put your arm awkwardly around her for a bit, you want to kiss her and she's not into it
Building up is fantastic game but don't bullshit yourself about whether you were actually doing it
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Facts. It happens bro but sometimes it’s better to overescalate than not. Even though sometimes it’s too soon at least u had the balls to do it. Don’t be scared to escalate. As long as u are having a good time and vibin, the girl will feel the same. Like when you guys are talking, playfully curl her hair like it’s natural. I know u really wanna hook up with this girl but it’s a lot of work for nothing trust me, been there done that.