We fucked during the night and she felt like she didn't feel like I like her or smth. Yes, I did give her multiple handprints on her ass. And we cuddled and slept for couple of hours and she left and like 5 am. and she kissed me goodbye on my lips and said "Don't miss me too much" After the date, I send her the text. "Last night was 🔥". she: "😊😊" she :"yeah it was pretty fun. Glad you had a good time" A day after that, she sends me a text like (not exact) "Hey, I just wanted to thank you for inviting me to stay for the night, but I didn't think I vibed with you pretty well. It's not you, but it seems like our preferences were a bit different in bed. I didn't think I felt the chemistry. I hope you find someone that you have chemistry with in the future." me: "Hey, if you think that I didn't like you, let me know, but I did have fun during the night and on the bed. Or if you're not interested in meeting up with me in the future, you can tell me that" I send her this text because I was unsure if she was not really into me or if she felt she wasn't wanted that night becuz she thought that I didn't cum. She: "I would want to meet up cuz you're pretty cute and stuff but I didn't get what I wanted. If I'm ever back in town I might hit you up to try again. But idk. I just wanted to get fucked harder and also am a sub lololol" Me: "When you come back or I go to __, I'll get the handcuffs ready and ..." . She: "Honestly, I just wanted you to thrust your hips faster and harder lololol. You were just not as fast or hard, [My actual name] " Me: "Don't worry. I'll bring my good cock next time ... and maybe my good fingers" No replies. How and when should I reengage this one? Don't want to reengage too soon becuz she'll be like why is the man so persistent or even needy for a girl thats far away. And don't want to reengage her too late cuz she'll be back in town and leave after i text her. My plan is prob to wait for 2 weeks (which is 2 weeks before she gets back to my city) and prob reengage "Yo sexy" or is this very likely over. Info that may be helpful: Before the date she called me and told me how I was a savage on text and through phone call. PS: This girl is my second priority not first btw, but I still want to have the possibility of meeting up with her again since she is super hot and cute. And this gives me the opportunity to improve my text game.
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She’s not buying what you just tried to sell her,
When you said fingers that was a.) You confirmed to her you can’t give her what she wants as you were already giving her an insurance policy with your fingers line b.)
Reality is her dildo is better insurance then your fingers. Hell even another guy who she hasn’t met might be in her eyes.
Sure reopen but she’s not down for the hey how are you shit IMO. She blatantly cold hearted told you you’re too weak for her, I think the photo shows more effectively and boldly that your about the shit. you cant display that to her in the frame that doesn’t show you as selling yourself, coming off needy please give me a second chance...in a confident way through text.
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I don't see how showing her photos of these stuff is going to show how I am "about the shit". It's like saying I have big dick and then the girl automatically thinks I now have a small dick. Btw, I only said finger because during the date she said I have good fingers.
If not, how should these photos be taken? When do you think is a good time for me to reengage?
Info that I could be useful: Before the date she called me and told me how I was a savage on text and through phone call.
Is this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5l0ozue3HJY&t=234s) kinda a good fit for this situation?
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Hey, I just wanted to thank you for inviting me to stay for the night, but I didn't think I vibed with you pretty well. It's not you, but it seems like our preferences were a bit different in bed. I didn't think I felt the chemistry. I hope you find someone that you have chemistry with in the future
Then she says maybe she will hit you up, but you didn’t give her what she wanted, she said she’s a sub. I.e take control be controlling and rough. Don’t fuck like a bore.
Read it again and pick up the hints bro, I personally think she’s giving it to you nicely and she just didn’t feel it. Like tbh even if you’re moderately good for her then you wouldn’t even get a message like that.
But she gave you a second chance by being honest and saying she wants to be dominated, but you still don’t get it, move on, and stop wanking.
I’d wait a week and a bit till she comes back, two weeks is too long.