How should I reengage this one?
We fucked during the night and she felt like she didn't feel like I like her or smth. Yes, I did give her multiple handprints on her ass. And we cuddled and slept for couple of hours and she left and like 5 am. and she kissed me goodbye on my lips and said "Don't miss me too much"
After the date, I send her the text. "Last night was ๐ฅ".
she: "๐๐"
she :"yeah it was pretty fun. Glad you had a good time"
A day after that, she sends me a text like (not exact) "Hey, I just wanted to thank you for inviting me to stay for the night, but I didn't think I vibed with you pretty well. It's not you, but it seems like our preferences were a bit different in bed. I didn't think I felt the chemistry. I hope you find someone that you have chemistry with in the future."
me: "Hey, if you think that I didn't like you, let me know, but I did have fun during the night and on the bed. Or if you're not interested in meeting up with me in the future, you can tell me that" I send her this text because I was unsure if she was not really into me or if she felt she wasn't wanted that night becuz she thought that I didn't cum.
She: "I would want to meet up cuz you're pretty cute and stuff but I didn't get what I wanted. If I'm ever back in town I might hit you up to try again. But idk. I just wanted to get fucked harder and also am a sub lololol"
Me: "When you come back or I go to ____, I'll get the handcuffs ready and ..." .
She: "Honestly, I just wanted you to thrust your hips faster and harder lololol. You were just not as fast or hard, [My actual name] "
Me: "Don't worry. I'll bring my good cock next time ... and maybe my good fingers"
No replies.
How and when should I reengage this one? Don't want to reengage too soon becuz she'll be like why is the man so persistent or even needy for a girl thats far away. And don't want to reengage her too late cuz she'll be back in town and leave after i text her. My plan is prob to wait for 2 weeks (which is 2 weeks before she gets back to my city) and prob reengage "Yo sexy" or is this very likely over.
Info that may be helpful: Before the date she called me and told me how I was a savage on text and through phone call.
PS: This girl is my second priority not first btw, but I still want to have the possibility of meeting up with her again since she is super hot and cute. And this gives me the opportunity to improve my text game.
I thought you were told how to engage already in the last post.
Yea, I see that. You told me to act like I don't care, but I just want your guys input on how to reengage on this
and plus there is three new lines if u read all of it.
I was talking about the adminโs advice. A lot of it is just going to be trial and error. You donโt need us for every step.
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With a photo of cuffs, paddle and blindfold, something about schedule or availability?
Think she made a clear statement now you have to hit back and as a look no, youโre wrong, Iโll show not sell myself for a chance at a second round to redeem. she told you sheโs well above your level and you canโt do it for her, so you need to be bold back otherwise itโs beggy and needy

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I would honestly leave it be. It sounds like she didn't really enjoy the sex that much. Or more accurately, she didn't get what she wanted. Plus combined with the fact that she doesn't live in town makes the whole things exponentially harder