How to respond here? Context: ~30yo, met IRL at charity event, texting for 3 weeks because she was travelling, first date in cafe, good connection, longer walk w/ some holding hands, making out at goodbye. After that, she became barely responsive, I reengaged after 5 days with Ryan G meme, good response, then I moved on to suggest new date, now this.
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Well, it all points to a recent break-up she had.
Don't think it's a too big of the concern, otherwise the final smiley wouldn't be there.
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Exactly, you want her to open up about it so you can reframe it afterwards
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Mhm. Do you have a particular answer in mind?
I assume that with her breakup feelings, she's the only one that can deal with them. Also I'm not sure if I should raise this topic and we end up talking about her previous bf.
So I rather thought about only assuring her that nothing will go too fast. Like this:
No worries, [name]. We can just do the things that we'll both feel good about.
What do you think?