Advice? "the kiss caught me unprepared"

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J

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J

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How to respond here?

Context: ~30yo, met IRL at charity event, texting for 3 weeks because she was travelling, first date in cafe, good connection, longer walk w/ some holding hands, making out at goodbye.

After that, she became barely responsive, I reengaged after 5 days with Ryan G meme, good response, then I moved on to suggest new date, now this.

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J

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There seems to be a deep-rooted concern you have to address. "It didn't feel so right kissing?"

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J

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Well, it all points to a recent break-up she had.
Don't think it's a too big of the concern, otherwise the final smiley wouldn't be there.

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J

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Exactly, you want her to open up about it so you can reframe it afterwards

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avilench . Avatar

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Yeah man. Unfortunately, this means that she's just not interested. I don't think there's anything that can be done

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