There is some kind of doctor's office adjacent to where I work. As I am leaving my job (flexible hours), I generally leave on the late side and it's dark outside. As I pull out of my parking spot, I've been noticing an attractive female nurse/dental assistant/etc. smoking a cigarette on a regular basis. I didn't think doctor's offices were open that late (??) I gather that she's taking a smoke break and then has to return to work. Keep in mind she is standing a bit of a ways down, but not that far from the entrance to my workplace. Which, if any, is the right approach? I have very little experience, but I am motivated to shoot my shot in this case. -Walking up and asking for a light (I don't smoke but perhaps an icebreaker) -Walking up, are you single? -Driving by and saying something out the window -Go into her building hoping to bump into her - ask for directions (LMAO) -Too risky since it's a few doors down from work
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That is true. Probably a good sign if she's talking even if it's a shit test. What would you say about having co-workers with me? I have a couple of good buddies at work. I feel like having peer pressure to do it would help. On my own, I'm so much more likely to chicken out. We could make like we're going for a walk to the convenience store and ask her if she wants to come. Or maybe something else?
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This website has deleted my reply 2 times not :/
Anyway I'm not really a pro at infield or cold approach but just don't think too hard it's gonna fuck with your vibe. Just go in smile, have fun, even voice tone, eye contact but not a weird amount and you should be fine.
If you need your buddies to go, just tell them when you walk by that you'll catch up and open her.
Can I borrow a light.
Im __ , What's your name
I don't smoke, but you're actually cute and I thought it be funny to steal your light for a second
Haha
False time constraints* I actually have to go here in a min. But what's your story
Vibe
Number close.. talking to you doesn't suck, this was fun we should continue it. What's your number
Look up boyfriend objections just incase
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Good playbook! I want to do the best I can so I will go over this again.