matched with this girl on hinge. she actually sent me a rose. chatted for a couple of months. she would disappear then i would disappear. we finally met for a day the day before veterans day. she’s a teacher. we had a good and romantic date and hooked up at her place. i ended up leaving in the morning but totally regret it because she gave me a lot of hints she wanted me to stay. i like her a lot and would like her to be my gf. she’s not being super responsive and i don’t want to get needy. lmk any advice. ps writing this from a kenyan girl i just hooked up with. ps sorry pics updated out of order
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I’ve learned from experience to never ask a girl to let you know if she’s free because she’ll most likely not. I’d say try to pick a time and day. When you said “next time we can beach together” you could be like “now we just need to pick a day” and ask what her schedule is like and say how’s blank time and date. Overall, just try to remain persistent and keep bringing it up when suitable.
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Hmmm. thanks for the advice.
What do you mean by keep bringing it up?
Was thinking of sending her ryan gosslin meme with 'happy wednesday'
Then: let's pick a day to hang out, how's Friday?
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The Ryan gosling meme could work to reengage but ask how she’s doing and stuff. Get some banter first. Don’t immediately ask to hangout or that could ruin everything. When I say keep bringing it up I mean like for example say she told you she spent the day inside with her dog, you could jokingly tease and be like “sounds fun, just missing a bottle of wine.. & me” or something like that you know? Fun flirty ways to paint a picture of you hanging out doing something fun together & from there you can try and soft close.
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‘Never ask a girl to let you know when she’s free’ M M said
^This