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I've noticed you have mentioned "DHV"ing in texting before as something very important...but haven't really had it laid out as far as what it actually is or how to properly do so. What specifically defines a text that is a DHV or how is it performed in practice, specifically, as a method?
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For anyone not familiar DHV = display of high value.
It has the same importance as DHVing at a night club, etc. But I believe even more important when it comes to online game. You don't have other aspects of game that you could use that you'd have in person if you're cold approaching. You have your bio, photos and text. And competition is way more tough (it's pretty much a buffet for women) online.
So the biggest way to grab her attention and separate yourself from the rest of the competition is having value to offer. But most men don't display it or don't know how to.
Aside from showing a high value life in photos that you use for Tinder, IG, etc. You can display it over text.
My favorite DHV is sexual DHV. I paint myself as a sexual authority. My job is a writer. "What do you write about?" -- this is an easy bait. She'll likely ask what I write about. "I write about sex. I have a guide where I teach my followers how to give women the best oral. Up to 30 orgasms in a session. You?" -- Not only do I set up myself as being an authority on sex. I show her that if we meet, there's a chance that she will experience amazing sex and more orgasms than she's ever had. I also throw in another DHV "...I teach my followers" -- I am a leader. Men look up to me. I also have a following. You don't have a large following without high value.
I prefer to add sex into some DHVs because it is the easiest and fastest path to... sex.
You can do non-sexual DHVs, but you still have to sexualize eventually.
Some guys do it with money. The issue with that DHV is that women may use and withhold sex to obtain that value that you offer (money) for as long as they can. Essentially milking you for your value without giving up their one value they have. Pussy.
If my value is sexual, withholding their value (pussy) means that they do not obtain or experience my value.
Now how do you deliver a DHV? Straight up displaying your value comes off as cocky and even suspicious that you do not actually have that value.
Or perhaps even too eager or easy. She knows you are offering your value straight up. Which in a way is a DLV. If you give up your value to any girl. So easily. Without even a challenge or effort, is it worth it?
So what I do is bait them into it. I bait permission. So how I explained earlier in setting up my bragging essentially.
I can ask her "what do you do for work?" She tells you and usually they ask you. "I write" -- they will always ask me what I write about.
Now I can use a bit of curiosity to get her to chase for that information. If she begs you to tell her she cannot get upset if it is sexual. And she cannot accuse you of being cocky. She asked! She begged! So I can say "haha I don't usually tell girls when I first meet them. It's a bit... different." -- all girls will jump on this essentially begging you to tell them.
That's your permission to brag. That's your permission to even go sexual. You can add in a "you sure? It's a bit explicit"
You can brag all you want and go sexual now.
Then I go into sex. Oral orgasms. All that.
Does that make sense?
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It does. Thank you for taking the time to share that. I seriously appreciate it.
As for where I stand, I guess it's a matter of not knowing what I can present as value, so maybe I just need to practice or brainstorm such things. I'm not genuinely huge on giving girls oral -- but making girls squirt would be a good goal.
I do understand the intrigue and open looping concept and how to do them, I just don't know how to identify things about myself or my life to use in such a way.
Im posting a screenshot of how small and simple I started an open loop of curiosity, which ultimately lead into sexual curiosity and then a super sexualization explosion -- great.
But the loop began as me being ambiguous about something about HER, not about me. It wasn't a DHV, so to speak, which is what I'm really after for more consistency.
Again, this is all in the context of text and online game specifically. Basically I am trying to understand and pinpoint DHV from and in texting alone.
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