It does. Thank you for taking the time to share that. I seriously appreciate it.

As for where I stand, I guess it's a matter of not knowing what I can present as value, so maybe I just need to practice or brainstorm such things. I'm not genuinely huge on giving girls oral -- but making girls squirt would be a good goal.
I do understand the intrigue and open looping concept and how to do them, I just don't know how to identify things about myself or my life to use in such a way.

Im posting a screenshot of how small and simple I started an open loop of curiosity, which ultimately lead into sexual curiosity and then a super sexualization explosion -- great.

But the loop began as me being ambiguous about something about HER, not about me. It wasn't a DHV, so to speak, which is what I'm really after for more consistency.
Again, this is all in the context of text and online game specifically. Basically I am trying to understand and pinpoint DHV from and in texting alone.