No response though she was answering fast before. She kept asking about my work so maybe I lost value teling her I'm switching jobs Thinking of waiting 3-4 days and saying "Don't worry it's not a trick question haha"

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avilench . Avatar

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No, I don't think you lost any value by telling her you switched jobs. Most chicks don't care about that. Your follow up text is fine, but remove the "Haha" part from it. In general you want to minimize the use of "Hahas" and "Lols" that make your texting sound feminine.

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Alex I never paid attention but do you use lol's or haha's at all? lol

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avilench . Avatar

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Very rarely, they're largely unnecessary. I prefer to use a ;) when I need to "soften" a text

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J

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No answer a week later. Should I just give it more time or try again?

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avilench . Avatar

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"If you're too nervous, I'd understand"

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