Im in a Tough spot and Don't know what to do. Iv been wanting to contact My ex from 2015. It's the girl I love and I know that. We didn't have a nasty break up or anything like that. We kinda just went our separate ways. When we where together She ended up pregnant But she had a Miscarriage. We haven't talked sense 2015 and i think thats because of How hurt we both where and our pride. Now she has a kid and is dating some guy. (not the Baby's daddy) I want to message her and see how things are going. I really do care for this girl and would do anything for her. Im ready to put my pride to the side and reach out. What should I do. Wait till she's single or Just reach out and see how things are going?
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5y ago
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This is less of a matter of what we think and more of a matter of what YOU WANT.
We are not you. We do not have the feelings that you have for this girl.
From the outside, I would be like "fuck that shit mate, get over it! Start meeting more girls and stop going down that route"
But you're going to be stuck with only two choices:
A personal take - if she already had a kid, AND is in another relationship, shes moved on wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy beyond you already man.
You reaching out to her will probably confirm that you both not being together was the right move and you'll never get a chance back.
In my opinion, its time to improve your life (gym, books, friends, activities, etc) and move the fuck on. Get over this shit.
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yes But I Haven't talked to her in over 6 years. All theses other girls I have been dating are boring or don't bring the best out of me. These's girls are just not what Im looking for
4 Posts (+6), 48 Cmts (+17)
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