I'd post the screens but it's in italian, I'd have to translate. Follow up on the girl who I had to see after quarantine canceled our plans, we agree on saturday evening and the day before she starts bringing up the possible rain, I tell her that if she can do sunday it's fine by me, she says she'll let me know. Saturday I check up and she says she doesn't know for sunday, I send her a voice telling her to just go that afternoon as it would not rain before late evening, she agrees, but 2 hrs before the date she brings up excuses and says sorry I'll have to reschedule in the week. I tell her to let me know when she's free and I'll let her know if I'm free myself. I find it hard for a girl to bring up a date herself so I intend on texting her Wed or Thursday and escalating again to a soft close, is it the right way to proceed? Or should I bring up what the problem is since she's already met me in person (2/3 months ago) and the convo has always went swimmingly?

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avilench . Avatar

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Nah you didn’t man. That was the time to figure out what concerns she has

Moving forewarned yes try opening and soft closing again, if she gives you push back then try to dig to figure out whats up

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Aight thanks I'll keep it in mind for next times.
In the end she texted me today saying if we could see this afternoon.

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Nice man

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