Hello, So I met this girl at a mall off a cold approach and I started texting her.. she was hesitant in the beginning but ended up giving me her number weird enough cause we both had a liking for music. So we been texting back and forth for a couple weeks cause our schedules are both hectic ended up hanging out on a sunday but she wasnt receptive to any advances to sexualize. Then I ended up texting her back after and she started investing a little more even to initiate a another day to hang out. I told her lets link at my crib unfortunately my house is occupied by family memebers at the moment so I forgot to let her know. That night I contacted her and said we should link at her crib ill pull up and we can hang out somewhere.. so I did that. I ended up driving around for starbucks with her and then we parked outside her crib I figured if it got heated well go back to her place. I started touching her and I went in for the kiss she bloked it so I resorted to just ignoring her and acting like im texting a chick.. She then started telling me she doesn’t kiss until their is a connection but then I started asking her when the last time she hooked up abd she said 2 months ago it was a one night stand. So I am confused so I asked her if she finds me attractive and she gave me a neutral nod like a forced yes nothing genunine. Then suprisingly a chick calls me but shes a friend and she sees the caller id. She says who that was and I told her its a friend and why do you care cause you dont like me anyways. She nodded and said theirs another guy im talking to as well, I didnt know if she saying that to piss me off for the chick calling me or she really talking to someone else. So I just ended the night and told her im going home to sleep, she said “wow your kicking me out, I said no I just have work”. So I am assuming she using me for my time and energy im planning on not texting her back.. Its weird she would invest 3 weeks of texting and hanging out with me twice and not want to kiss.. idk I kind of like her but what do you guys think I should do??? I already kind of messed up by driving to her place instead of having her come to mine which I usually do.. but do u think shes just using me?? Cause all she does is ask me questions about why guys do certain things and why you cheat etc. and how she had s bad past her bf kicked her out. Shes older too 33 but hot.