I came across this bio on a dating app. Kind of strange: Been hea before. Not looking to meet up or for any relationships. Really, not looking for anything from anyone. I'm terrible at replying back to people and rather talk on the feed. I'm pretty introverted and shy IRL. Just use this place like Facebook. Also, like to post occasional pics of me. Openers often are based on the girl's photos, but she just has a couple of body shots (quite good) and food pictures. What would you suggest for an opener?
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J
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My perspective is that Alex is super upfront on his profile about BDSM etc, so he can get away with more explicit sexual teases and innuendo, it's congruent to his image. I think you're prob miscalibeating and getting too sexual too soon. Eg I would never use "research your body" but you could go with "I don't know that much about microbiology, but I do give expert massages for wellness...and pleasure" etc. Use more discreet language while having a sexual intent. That's my take anyway.
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Hmm, massages might be a good approach! Would it be helpful to put that in the bio, or maybe have a photo of you massaging a girl? Both?
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I would not put either in my bio. Def not a photo unless you're a legit massage therapist. If you're extremely jacked and Chad looking then you can work the explicit sexual stuff - or, if you have a similar persona to Alex with knowledge of kink & BDSM etc you can work it in somewhat, otherwise I would keep the sexually suggestive stuff plausibly deniable, with some cleverness until you actually meet her IRL.