I came across this bio on a dating app. Kind of strange: Been hea before. Not looking to meet up or for any relationships. Really, not looking for anything from anyone. I'm terrible at replying back to people and rather talk on the feed. I'm pretty introverted and shy IRL. Just use this place like Facebook. Also, like to post occasional pics of me. Openers often are based on the girl's photos, but she just has a couple of body shots (quite good) and food pictures. What would you suggest for an opener?
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J
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11 Posts (+5), 23 Cmts (+1)
I had another interaction where I did some joking about a girl's area of study/career. She was a microbiologist and I teased by saying I want to research your body. It did get the conversation going, but she started putting up slut defense saying she has to be into someone emotionally before she would be interested sexually. She referred to this as demisexual. Any tips for breaking through. I mostly get amusement and attempts to build sexual tension are at best tolerated and sometimes ghosted.
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My perspective is that Alex is super upfront on his profile about BDSM etc, so he can get away with more explicit sexual teases and innuendo, it's congruent to his image. I think you're prob miscalibeating and getting too sexual too soon. Eg I would never use "research your body" but you could go with "I don't know that much about microbiology, but I do give expert massages for wellness...and pleasure" etc. Use more discreet language while having a sexual intent. That's my take anyway.
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Hmm, massages might be a good approach! Would it be helpful to put that in the bio, or maybe have a photo of you massaging a girl? Both?