background: met this girl when i was out in the city. had sex on the second date, after that pretty much just sex/hanging out dates at my place. I went to travel a bit, so we hadn't seen each other for about 3-4 weeks. once i was back, i felt it was a bit more difficult to meet up with her again, eventually we just met up for dinner (last sunday). -the vibe was a bit off at the dinner, she was a bit more distant, which in return felt also weird to me. nevertheless, we did a lil walk around the nearby park and just made out a lil before saying goodbye. -on my way back home i received a text from her where she apologized for her behaviour and being so distant. she didnt feel liked it matched with us that evening, that's why it became a bit uncomfortable to her (so I probably fucked up during the dinner date and got stuck in my head too much). since then we just texted a bit back and forth but i havent pushed a for any date. should i just let it chill for a while or trying to set up another date rather sooner than later?

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J

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J

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yea i replied pretty much something along those lines that day (however, i'll keep your version definitely in mind, i like it).
thanks for the suggestions bro, i'll hit her up after the weekend or so

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L

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It's good she apologized and basically took responsibility, but remember the basic principle of what you feel she feels. And if you're in a high vibe state and she can't meet that, she'll likely qualify afterwards.... which is what she did here, so i think you prob did almost everything right, if you reflect & agree then do not 2nd guess yourself.

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Jan Kartinjak Avatar

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Np man and good luck

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