Not sure how to procede or let it sit for a lil while?
23 Posts (+21), 65 Cmts (+28)
background: met this girl when i was out in the city.
had sex on the second date, after that pretty much just sex/hanging out dates at my place.
I went to travel a bit, so we hadn't seen each other for about 3-4 weeks.
once i was back, i felt it was a bit more difficult to meet up with her again, eventually we just met up for dinner (last sunday).
-the vibe was a bit off at the dinner, she was a bit more distant, which in return felt also weird to me. nevertheless, we did a lil walk around the nearby park and just made out a lil before saying goodbye.
-on my way back home i received a text from her where she apologized for her behaviour and being so distant. she didnt feel liked it matched with us that evening, that's why it became a bit uncomfortable to her
(so I probably fucked up during the dinner date and got stuck in my head too much).
since then we just texted a bit back and forth but i havent pushed a for any date.
should i just let it chill for a while or trying to set up another date rather sooner than later?
9 Posts (+15), 447 Cmts (+389)
Just say "yeai felt like the vibe wasnt right aswell and thats understandable, obviously not every single date is gonna be as amazing as some of our previous ones"
Then dont get needy. You can text if the convo is fun and interesting, if not then just chill and focus on other girls. Invite her out again in like 7-10 days.
23 Posts (+21), 65 Cmts (+28)
yea i replied pretty much something along those lines that day (however, i'll keep your version definitely in mind, i like it).
thanks for the suggestions bro, i'll hit her up after the weekend or so
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
It's good she apologized and basically took responsibility, but remember the basic principle of what you feel she feels. And if you're in a high vibe state and she can't meet that, she'll likely qualify afterwards.... which is what she did here, so i think you prob did almost everything right, if you reflect & agree then do not 2nd guess yourself.
9 Posts (+15), 447 Cmts (+389)
Np man and good luck