Should I just re-assure her? I get this a lot and it’s annoying to deal with. On one hand, I’m not opposed to something serious if the vibe and girl is right, but I’m also not against hookups. What’s the best way to answer this? Thanks in advance
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Im not just looking for hookups but I also like to take things slow. Personally, unless I have fucked a girl 5-7 times I probably won’t move things forward or confess my feelings. Besides all I want is a meet up to see if there’s chemistry in the first place
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Go back and read my long comment on this above. Alex gave you the perfect line which got her to open up, and now it's clear to me that what I wrote earlier applies fully to her.
It's up to you how you want to be. But keep in mind the "crazy" aspects of female nature I cited...
Edit: btw everybody wants shit. So what. Nobody cares what I want. Why do we men spend so much energy and effort caring about what a woman wants? I mean, you do you in terms of personal ethics. But, c'mon now...
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I’m not saying you put on a ring on her after the first date or to wait for sex for several dates. I’m saying considering her experience, if you see she’s into you but you’re not into her then don’t use her for sex.