I saw a good opening and entered from the kinky frame. However girl resisted and mentioned how she is a feminist and that crap. Then said she isn't into kinky stuff. Previously I had a similar girl who later turned out to be a secret kinkster. How to approach this situation? What is the response to "I don't like kink"
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Some women just aren’t into kink and you’ll have to accept that. However, the feminism excuse is silly because some of the most feminist women I’ve dated have also been the most kinky. Kink can be very empowering for women if it is their choice.
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Some of the girls really get mad when I mention spanking, and I'm not sure if it is a front, shit test, play or real.
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It probably also highly depends on location.... in the SF Bay Area BDSM was all over the place so it would be strange for someone to get angry. But if you are in a more conservative area, it might be unfamiliar or weird to them.
Sometimes it is easier to introduce in person. You can brush it off as a joke if you say it in person, with a winking smile, and see if they play along with it or not.
suggesting it as punishment for them being a boring texter might work sometimes with kinky girls, but usually at that point in the convo they don’t have enough attraction/investment to be open to it.
also always remember: what works for a dude who is an 8-10 doesn’t necessarily work for a guy who is a 4-7