Kink, feminism
I saw a good opening and entered from the kinky frame. However girl resisted and mentioned how she is a feminist and that crap. Then said she isn't into kinky stuff.
Previously I had a similar girl who later turned out to be a secret kinkster.
How to approach this situation? What is the response to "I don't like kink"
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Post screenshots man
Her profile: I'll report ya'll to authorities ;)
Me intro: who?
Her: Corona authorities
Me: What did we do to you? :)
Her: You don't have to do anything, I just want to :)
Me: Are you always such a killjoy :)
Her: Yes, most of the time
Me: So no one put you in your place? :)
Her: They probably didn't care
Me: Maybe they weren't rough enough?
Her: Possible. Maybe they didn't care, maybe they didn't put much effort. Also why is this needed?
Me: It's because you're reporting us to authorities
Me: Someone needs to spank your ass
Her: If someone accidentally touched my elbow in the streets, I'll make a scene. Let alone an ass spank.
Me: In the streets, of course, do that
Her: In public, workplace, school, house, bed. In every social situation, I'll make a scene in any violence related activities
Me: If there isn't mutual consent, sure
Her: I guess you like kinky stuff
Me: Yes, you?
Her: No
Me: Hmm, what do you like? Your profile is empty
Her: When you ask like that, nothing comes to mind. Maybe I don't like anything? hahahaha
Me: Probably not, we'll figure out your interests together. As long as you don't report me haha
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I was pretty much dumbfounded when the making a scene stuff were mentioned. Your videos never had an example like this Alex, so I wasn't sure how far I could take it, or if pursuing this type of chick would create problems, or if it is just a front. So I just played it safe after that.
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i would respond by trolling her, "you sound like an exciting one" but this chick seems like a downer i persoanlly wouldnt even try at this point
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Some women just aren’t into kink and you’ll have to accept that. However, the feminism excuse is silly because some of the most feminist women I’ve dated have also been the most kinky. Kink can be very empowering for women if it is their choice.
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Some of the girls really get mad when I mention spanking, and I'm not sure if it is a front, shit test, play or real.
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It probably also highly depends on location.... in the SF Bay Area BDSM was all over the place so it would be strange for someone to get angry. But if you are in a more conservative area, it might be unfamiliar or weird to them.
Sometimes it is easier to introduce in person. You can brush it off as a joke if you say it in person, with a winking smile, and see if they play along with it or not.
suggesting it as punishment for them being a boring texter might work sometimes with kinky girls, but usually at that point in the convo they don’t have enough attraction/investment to be open to it.
also always remember: what works for a dude who is an 8-10 doesn’t necessarily work for a guy who is a 4-7