Update everybody. I ran into her like 5 more times and left my headphones in and let her initiate every single time and do all the work. When we’d chat I would flirt subtly, pass little shit tests and be the first to leave. The last time I saw her I elbowed her and said catch you later. She didn’t want me to leave and when I went to my car she rushed out behind me and pulled off her mask. She had a smirk and when I was pulling out she stood behind my car with a big smile at this point and was waving. I saw it in my rear view mirror. I decided it was enough investment in her to initiate a text interaction if I didn’t hear from her in a half hr. I did and she replied in under a minute. Texts were going great until I sent 2 voice notes getting ahead of myself and too comfortable 😐. She didn’t reply and I believe she went to another store to avoid me today. Every time I’ve gone there since I met her I have seen her. I think I may have fucked it up for good. Had 2 other great interactions yesterday leading to #s and fucked up both of them as well. Feels bad man. I ruin it every time
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Yea bro, so you didn’t need to send voice memo, or the second voice memo after that hrs later. You two already interact in person. A lot of the “plans” could be setup in person and just use text to confirm & maybe vibe a bit here and there. Or if logistics line up on a particular day, just go for the pull, in person.
If you want to re-engage over text, send a Ryan Gosling meme.
Side Note: instead of sending those voice memos, I would’ve text something like “guess we might have to join forces 😏”, and you could add “to beat the snow” if you want. But voice memos aren’t bad, though.
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Thanks for your input and help brother
147 Posts (+145), 493 Cmts (+180)
I took advice from
Someone once and completely ruined it with this 10/10 I got head from. Just stay calm and do what Dennis or Alex says.
147 Posts (+145), 493 Cmts (+180)
Dennis is very competent when it comes to game, be careful who you ask advice from . I agree with homie and I also feel like there should be more of an emphasis on making plans in person when she was as invested as you described.