Update everybody. I ran into her like 5 more times and left my headphones in and let her initiate every single time and do all the work. When we’d chat I would flirt subtly, pass little shit tests and be the first to leave. The last time I saw her I elbowed her and said catch you later. She didn’t want me to leave and when I went to my car she rushed out behind me and pulled off her mask. She had a smirk and when I was pulling out she stood behind my car with a big smile at this point and was waving. I saw it in my rear view mirror. I decided it was enough investment in her to initiate a text interaction if I didn’t hear from her in a half hr. I did and she replied in under a minute. Texts were going great until I sent 2 voice notes getting ahead of myself and too comfortable 😐. She didn’t reply and I believe she went to another store to avoid me today. Every time I’ve gone there since I met her I have seen her. I think I may have fucked it up for good. Had 2 other great interactions yesterday leading to #s and fucked up both of them as well. Feels bad man. I ruin it every time

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I took the second one word for word from him. I didn’t like it at first, he insisted.. and he’s actually given me really solid advice and completely turned around lame text convos before for me. This is the only time it didn’t work..

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Yea bro, so you didn’t need to send voice memo, or the second voice memo after that hrs later. You two already interact in person. A lot of the “plans” could be setup in person and just use text to confirm & maybe vibe a bit here and there. Or if logistics line up on a particular day, just go for the pull, in person.

If you want to re-engage over text, send a Ryan Gosling meme.

Side Note: instead of sending those voice memos, I would’ve text something like “guess we might have to join forces 😏”, and you could add “to beat the snow” if you want. But voice memos aren’t bad, though.

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Thanks for your input and help brother

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