Thanks Matt. This is very accurate in my experience.
One’s approach to online dating is very much dependent on volume, exposure and matches.
If you live in a city of 5 million with a constant churn of new profiles, you’re operating an infinite pool. If you’re getting a steady stream of matches, a high volume low investment strategy is the best approach.
One huge change I’ve noticed over 10 years of online dating is girls today seldom initiate, nor do they invest much by asking questions, responding in a timely manner etc. Maintaining a real time conversation over text is difficult in these overstimulated ADD times.
Having said that, girls today are much more inclined to meet quickly with little upfront “comfort” provided you msg her at the right time and she’s in the right state - ideally the same night or within 1-3 days max. Think of it like a hand grenade - the longer you wait the more likely it’ll blow up.
Thus, a high volume low investment “strike while the iron is hot or keep moving” approach can line you up 1-3 dates each week via maximizing exposure in a big city.
13 Posts (+2), 29 Cmts (+3)
Thanks Matt. This is very accurate in my experience.
One’s approach to online dating is very much dependent on volume, exposure and matches.
If you live in a city of 5 million with a constant churn of new profiles, you’re operating an infinite pool. If you’re getting a steady stream of matches, a high volume low investment strategy is the best approach.
One huge change I’ve noticed over 10 years of online dating is girls today seldom initiate, nor do they invest much by asking questions, responding in a timely manner etc. Maintaining a real time conversation over text is difficult in these overstimulated ADD times.
Having said that, girls today are much more inclined to meet quickly with little upfront “comfort” provided you msg her at the right time and she’s in the right state - ideally the same night or within 1-3 days max. Think of it like a hand grenade - the longer you wait the more likely it’ll blow up.
Thus, a high volume low investment “strike while the iron is hot or keep moving” approach can line you up 1-3 dates each week via maximizing exposure in a big city.
Thoughts?
16 Posts (+15), 151 Cmts (+29)
Just do what Alex teaches.