Hey Sean, it is all about the vibe. Alex talks a lot about his 50 Shades profile. If you meet a girl with that type of profile, and she comes over, done deal. Before Alex I never invited girls straight over. Btw, Not all girls are down to bone on the first date, even if they want to. I meet girls the same age as you and can consistently bring them back to my place. I don't close them all. Girls in their 20s are definitely more dtf than 30s. Last point to consider, especially now. Girls are looking for boyfriends. If they have an amazing time with you (girls have an amazing time with me), they might see you more as bf material and not fuck. Just be cool and make a 2nd date.
Thanks Matt. This is very accurate in my experience.
One’s approach to online dating is very much dependent on volume, exposure and matches.
If you live in a city of 5 million with a constant churn of new profiles, you’re operating an infinite pool. If you’re getting a steady stream of matches, a high volume low investment strategy is the best approach.
One huge change I’ve noticed over 10 years of online dating is girls today seldom initiate, nor do they invest much by asking questions, responding in a timely manner etc. Maintaining a real time conversation over text is difficult in these overstimulated ADD times.
Having said that, girls today are much more inclined to meet quickly with little upfront “comfort” provided you msg her at the right time and she’s in the right state - ideally the same night or within 1-3 days max. Think of it like a hand grenade - the longer you wait the more likely it’ll blow up.
Thus, a high volume low investment “strike while the iron is hot or keep moving” approach can line you up 1-3 dates each week via maximizing exposure in a big city.
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Hey Sean, it is all about the vibe. Alex talks a lot about his 50 Shades profile. If you meet a girl with that type of profile, and she comes over, done deal. Before Alex I never invited girls straight over. Btw, Not all girls are down to bone on the first date, even if they want to. I meet girls the same age as you and can consistently bring them back to my place. I don't close them all. Girls in their 20s are definitely more dtf than 30s. Last point to consider, especially now. Girls are looking for boyfriends. If they have an amazing time with you (girls have an amazing time with me), they might see you more as bf material and not fuck. Just be cool and make a 2nd date.
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Thanks Matt. This is very accurate in my experience.
One’s approach to online dating is very much dependent on volume, exposure and matches.
If you live in a city of 5 million with a constant churn of new profiles, you’re operating an infinite pool. If you’re getting a steady stream of matches, a high volume low investment strategy is the best approach.
One huge change I’ve noticed over 10 years of online dating is girls today seldom initiate, nor do they invest much by asking questions, responding in a timely manner etc. Maintaining a real time conversation over text is difficult in these overstimulated ADD times.
Having said that, girls today are much more inclined to meet quickly with little upfront “comfort” provided you msg her at the right time and she’s in the right state - ideally the same night or within 1-3 days max. Think of it like a hand grenade - the longer you wait the more likely it’ll blow up.
Thus, a high volume low investment “strike while the iron is hot or keep moving” approach can line you up 1-3 dates each week via maximizing exposure in a big city.
Thoughts?
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Just do what Alex teaches.