So matched with this girl. She’s in my town (1mile away) for the next few days then going back to uni so limited time. I moved to text thought I did everything well, with her moving towards meeting, good banter etc, slowly sexualised but I feel I missed out a good text or did something a bit wrong somewhere because the way I setup the date it fell off pretty quick I suggested we meet at the gym & she wasn’t sure and then I think I kinda fucked up by reducing all the ambiguity or something and going all logical when she pulled back. What should I do now she’s given me “I’ll have a think about it” and I said “sure why not” sort of vibe? She might reply tomorrow but what is the direction I should take going forward to get her to meet before she goes back?

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avilench . Avatar

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i dont think she's that interested. But id wait a few days and if no response "if you're too nervous, id understand"

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Hey man so kinda sparked it back up, she’s replying again and seems interested but kinda keeps ignoring but she also invested a lot. Obvs tomorrow is the last day she’s in town, what would you reply/follow up with . idk what I’m doing wrong around here but really hard .

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it's done. She is explicitly telling you she's not gonna make it. Near the end she basically started making fun of you even. Ex: "wow you do"

Its time to move on to the next one bro

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