So I have a date setup with this girl at my place today. Wanted to reopen her yesterday since we hadn't talked in a few days since setting things up but she never responded (just used the ryan Gosling meme). Not a fan of double texting after only a day but it is the day of our date and the issue is she doesn't even have my address yet. So its not a situation where she might show up anyways since she doesn't know where I live. Should i text her again today or do I just ride this out and see if she ever responds, maybe wait another day or two to send a takeaway or something?
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Thanks for the advice, if the night of the date passes and still nothing should I wait a few days then send something like "Genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type" or is that too strong? It technically is her first time not responding but it was in regards to a date she ended up flaking on.
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I would call her out with the nervous text instead of the flakey thing. What ended up happening?
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Well she never ended up responding on the night of the date so I sent her the flakey text a few days later. The nervous one might have been better but i figured since she genuinely did flake on me it would work. That was on Tuesday and still nothing. At this point I've sent 3 texts she hasn't responded to so I think its time to let this one go. Don't want to cross that line between persistent and needy you know?