Unresponsive on day of date
So I have a date setup with this girl at my place today. Wanted to reopen her yesterday since we hadn't talked in a few days since setting things up but she never responded (just used the ryan Gosling meme). Not a fan of double texting after only a day but it is the day of our date and the issue is she doesn't even have my address yet. So its not a situation where she might show up anyways since she doesn't know where I live. Should i text her again today or do I just ride this out and see if she ever responds, maybe wait another day or two to send a takeaway or something?
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Ah man, I can relate with that. I was supposed to have a date too and then she just straight up ghosted me. It sounds like you might be on the same path. If you haven’t before, you have to get on the phone with her. Texting can’t save the day, the phone will. Most of the time if it’s a girl that has high interest she’ll be the one calling you trying to set up the date, even over text. There’s this girl that I would piss off because she’d call me while I’m on the phone with other girls asking me to meet up and I’d tell her no. If you haven’t talked to her on the phone or FaceTimed once, most likely she’s going to flake but who knows, some people might have met up with texting alone. A good phone call guarantees the date and if it doesn’t then it makes you more confident that it will happen. Watch Alex’s video on how to do a phone call with a girl and if you don’t want to watch it then just text her asking if she wants to get on the phone for 1-2 minutes and if she doesn’t answer back within 2-6hours later before the date is supposed to happen then just call her phone anyway. If she doesn’t text back or call for the reschedule then she ghosted you and that means to move on. You can reengage the next day or a week later saying, “I didn’t know that you were the flakey type” or you can be like, “Oh ok, so you’re one of those” to kind of get her wondering and asking questions but if you’re tired of trying..............Delete her number and keep swiping on Tinder.
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If she doesn't respond to ryan gosling meme, after a few hours I'd say "Hey. Still good for tonight?"
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Thanks for the advice, if the night of the date passes and still nothing should I wait a few days then send something like "Genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type" or is that too strong? It technically is her first time not responding but it was in regards to a date she ended up flaking on.
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I would call her out with the nervous text instead of the flakey thing. What ended up happening?