(I edited this for better clarity and more purpose) Just had a tinder date at this sexy 32 year old milfs house. The date started out well with lots of sexual tension. About an hour or so in, I said "I don't really like one night stands, the sex usually isn't that great". She gave me a smirk and disagreed, that sometimes she's had great one night stand sex. This threw me off completely and I think it all went downhill from there. I believe her sexual confidence intimidated me and exposed my sexual insecurities - this girl knew what she wanted. There was lots of touching and then a brief makeout. I pulled back on the first makeout like I always do to build up tension and she came in for another small kiss. Another 30 min to an hour went by and I went in again and this time she seemed closed off, her lips didn't even open. I gave up after that. It never escalated from there and the sexual tension died off. I admit, she was extremely fun to talk to about a wide range of topics so I got carried away in the conversation (this never happens to me). I stayed at her place semi cuddling and talking with her from 8pm - 1:30am. I never made it about us and didn’t turn her on verbally. Yes, I understand this is likely done, however, should I sexually DHV over text - get her aroused - pitch massage, talk about what i’ll do to her and perhaps she'd be down for another meet?