I’ve been talking/hanging out with this girl for about 2 months now. We’ve hung out 5 times and I haven’t been able to make a move. I’m still a virgin and am super nervous in the moment. There’s been plenty of opportunities and the vibe is there but I can’t make the move. I want to make plans with her this weekend since she’s coming back from a trip and I want to see her again before Valentine’s Day. I texted her Tuesday and this was the exchange. She has always responded well to gifs especially of Kermit so I thought this would work. Sometimes she’ll text me the next day so I’m not worried about that but I want to know if I should push for plans this weekend. I do want to see her and want to be persistent but I don’t want to come off as pushy or desperate. Should I ask her again on Saturday/Sunday if she’s doing anything/feeling spontaneous. And if she replies if I should keep the conversation going at all? Any advice would be very appreciated.
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I’m still at home with my parents. Before she left we tried to set up a little picnic at the beach with some wine. I was going to ask if she wanted to do that this weekend now that she’s back as a way to relax. This is that exchange.
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She's showing some investment. Just beware right after a trip she may have some jet lag. But I'd definitely try and set something up. If she ever says she's tired just tell her she could use some relaxation with a bottle of wine.
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If she texts back would you recommend I keep the conversation going until the weekend or just ask her again on Saturday if she’s feeling up to it?