I’ve been talking/hanging out with this girl for about 2 months now. We’ve hung out 5 times and I haven’t been able to make a move. I’m still a virgin and am super nervous in the moment. There’s been plenty of opportunities and the vibe is there but I can’t make the move.
I want to make plans with her this weekend since she’s coming back from a trip and I want to see her again before Valentine’s Day. I texted her Tuesday and this was the exchange. She has always responded well to gifs especially of Kermit so I thought this would work.
Sometimes she’ll text me the next day so I’m not worried about that but I want to know if I should push for plans this weekend. I do want to see her and want to be persistent but I don’t want to come off as pushy or desperate. Should I ask her again on Saturday/Sunday if she’s doing anything/feeling spontaneous. And if she replies if I should keep the conversation going at all? Any advice would be very appreciated.
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I'd definitely push for plans. Maybe invite her to relax with a drink. Has she been to your place yet? If you get around her just do small escalation steps and see how she reacts. Something as small as putting your arm around her. If she responds positively move to the next step.
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I’m still at home with my parents. Before she left we tried to set up a little picnic at the beach with some wine. I was going to ask if she wanted to do that this weekend now that she’s back as a way to relax. This is that exchange.
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She's showing some investment. Just beware right after a trip she may have some jet lag. But I'd definitely try and set something up. If she ever says she's tired just tell her she could use some relaxation with a bottle of wine.