One of the most sexually frustrating experiences is building up sexual tension over text or Snapchat, getting to a point where we are sending nudes and talking about fucking, and then waking up the next morning, trying to set up a time to hang and the girl either flakes or seems completely uninterested. Is this the female version of post-nut clarity? In the moment they are obviously at least sexually intrigued. Has anyone else experienced this, and if so, what are the ways to prevent this type of behavior?
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Building sexual tension in order to meet up is good, but you can't go over board sending nudes and you sending dick pictures back and fourth. The purpose should be to build it up to the meet up so you can have fun in person. It's better to flirt and tease and immediately go for the meet up in person ("Oh you'll find out in person ;)"). Don't over do it via text. Better to leave them thinking and wanting more. Flirt and get the meet up. Those women might just be time wasters unfortunately unless they actually have a legit reason for flaking (which does happen). I'm a woman btw.
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Appreciate the reply. If we start sending nudes, I usually try to meet the same night because I know that she is horny. Unfortunately, I'm 35 miles outside of the city that I swipe in so sometimes logistics don't work out or the girl has some sort of excuse (legit or not). From a woman's perspective, if you are sending nudes back and forth with a guy late and he asks to come over, would you be interested in hooking up that night? If not, would you actively try to reschedule? From a guy's perspective, sending nudes and not fucking is probably the most brutal tease there is, so it would provide a lot of insight to hear your thoughts.
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Well, I don't send nudes period; only time I have is with my then long time bf when he was away for 2 months. If I was horny, I'd just make it happen in person, and even then it would have to be first meeting up in person somewhere public to see if we even click because I'm not trying to get killed (I'm originally from a latin american country). These women are most likely just never going to meet in person because you are just validating them and sending them nudes without them even putting in the work to meet you and make it happen in person. They are acting like camgirls and you are just falling for it. They are most likely thinking "Damn, look at how easy it is with this loser. I don't even have to meet him in person." It sucks. I would recommend not sexting, hold a more dominant frame.