Sexting and Flaking
One of the most sexually frustrating experiences is building up sexual tension over text or Snapchat, getting to a point where we are sending nudes and talking about fucking, and then waking up the next morning, trying to set up a time to hang and the girl either flakes or seems completely uninterested. Is this the female version of post-nut clarity? In the moment they are obviously at least sexually intrigued. Has anyone else experienced this, and if so, what are the ways to prevent this type of behavior?
Alex talks about this in a few videos. You want sexualize via text (not on snap) but its a tight rope that you need to balance. The key is building sexual tension without going too far to ensure she wants to see you in person. If you give her what she wants (to see you nude or sext) she is less likely to come see it in person.
Alex has some videos on some lines him or Indian PE did that tease just enough and then leave her on a cliff hanger. then they say "you'll have to come see me in person if you want to know how it ends (with a smirk face) what's your schedule like this week?
hope this helps.
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I feel you man, thanks for the advice. The animal instincts kick in and I end up pushing things to that point because I get impatient and want the sexual stimulation/gratification immediately. I feel like incorporating sexting, if you're looking for a hookup/fwb, is a good thing because it screens for sexual interest/compatibility and also lets the girl know that if we link we are fucking. That said, with the last two girls I've sexted, one was looking for a fwb and the other wanted to have a threeway with me and a friend of hers, both have made it difficult to meet, so I don't really know whats going on there.
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Yup. This is common. This is why I recommend entirely avoiding sc. And also, I'm not a big fan of excessive sexting or exchanging nudes
I thoroughly enjoy sexting, but would rather get laid. Appreciate the advice
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Building sexual tension in order to meet up is good, but you can't go over board sending nudes and you sending dick pictures back and fourth. The purpose should be to build it up to the meet up so you can have fun in person. It's better to flirt and tease and immediately go for the meet up in person ("Oh you'll find out in person ;)"). Don't over do it via text. Better to leave them thinking and wanting more. Flirt and get the meet up. Those women might just be time wasters unfortunately unless they actually have a legit reason for flaking (which does happen). I'm a woman btw.
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Appreciate the reply. If we start sending nudes, I usually try to meet the same night because I know that she is horny. Unfortunately, I'm 35 miles outside of the city that I swipe in so sometimes logistics don't work out or the girl has some sort of excuse (legit or not). From a woman's perspective, if you are sending nudes back and forth with a guy late and he asks to come over, would you be interested in hooking up that night? If not, would you actively try to reschedule? From a guy's perspective, sending nudes and not fucking is probably the most brutal tease there is, so it would provide a lot of insight to hear your thoughts.
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Well, I don't send nudes period; only time I have is with my then long time bf when he was away for 2 months. If I was horny, I'd just make it happen in person, and even then it would have to be first meeting up in person somewhere public to see if we even click because I'm not trying to get killed (I'm originally from a latin american country). These women are most likely just never going to meet in person because you are just validating them and sending them nudes without them even putting in the work to meet you and make it happen in person. They are acting like camgirls and you are just falling for it. They are most likely thinking "Damn, look at how easy it is with this loser. I don't even have to meet him in person." It sucks. I would recommend not sexting, hold a more dominant frame.