So this is a second part, I let the tension last a bit since I didn’t find the need to reply quickly and she decided to text again with something very forward. Any thoughts on how I should handle this. First thought is, “well lucky for you I’m a great cuddler.” But that seems like I’m selling to her I want her to sell to me so let me know. Second thought is I invite her to drinks but she also doesn’t want to go out so I kinda want to find a way to make her invite me to her place. LMK
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While I do agree with you for the most part, I am going off what he already wanted to say/where he wants to take the interaction. Sure, it could be bait on her end and then she might screen him out, but then if he goes your way and doesn't make his intentions clear, she could easily screen him out on the 'date' unless he is extremely on point in the attraction building. It's a double edged blade here
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Why not do both? Read my three texts I gave to see how I do this. I say fuck the black and white in this case. You can both bypass her (imo) obvious bait while at the same time still remaining dominant, assertive, and persistent in what you truly want. I see what you're trying to say tho. He has a certain text style and is gonna respond in a different way than me going forward. In that case all I can say is pray to god that he can keep it going. But that doesn't change the validity of the three texts I sent. I believe they are among the best responses he could give right now to attract this women. Humbly lol
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I'd be interested for you to lay out an example in which either of the texts would lead to something. Can you share a line of dialogue as an example for where you'd take them after sending them?