Hey guys, would appreciate some critique, Most people say that my photos are fine, however I'm barely getting any decent matches - low count on likes, and the quality of likes are usually 5/10s. I thought I have a shadowban issue on Tinder, however since I get even worse results (almost 0 likes on Hinge and almost 0 on Bumble) on other apps, I can safely say that the problem isn't shadowban. My friend who gave me critical feedback said that my photos make me look gay (lol), not dominant and too staged. I agree with the feedback when it comes to being staged, which is why I started using more group photos in my recent attempt at Bumble. So far I had 5 likes in total in 2 days of using Bumble, which I haven't matched with any of them (all were 5/10 girls). I think my issue could be with not having sex appeal (not having a candid shirtless photo because i dont have a ripped body which i need to work on) and I agree with my buddy that the the photos might be looking too staged. I want to get more photos of doing cool stuff, and I want to start working out to improve my physique. However, I want to get some outside opinion on my current set of pics. Thanks in advance,
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def looks pretty gay tbh. lose the finger rings. gain some muscle.
lose the glasses. the bio is kinda boring.
post your hinge if you want us to review that.
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Thanks for the feedback. I do need muscle. I deleted hinge after trying it out recently, I’ll make a new acc if the changes I make to my profile work out
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Do you have highlights on your hair?
Anyway, I wear feather earrings and have long hair. No one thinks I'm gay though. I think you can wear feminine stuff and dye your hair if you want to but you do have to compensate with some masculine traits as well.
For example I have a lot of tattoos (including a sleeve) and I wear leather jackets so it's more acceptable because it's more of a rockstar/celebrity/peacock type of look.
I think your style should reflect your personality so I would find a way to make your style a bit more masculine rather than trying to look like someone else.
Just my opinnion though.