Not OLD. Small Town random meet, on a Friday night where I got cancelled (rescheduled actually, all good). So...12 days ago. She reached out proactively once to basically say that her creepy old Dad Facebook stalked me. She seems cool and normal, but the rest is here. I think she could've come seen me last weekend if she really wanted to, I've probably complicated things for her and probably am pushing the guy she's seeing into action vicariously. Feedback wanted.
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Responding to your edit, last part specifically:
There is zero doubt in my mind that she finds me more attractive than whoever she's fucking but won't yet commit to her. That's clear with her "full disclosure" message. So I think that my presence, kinda showing up in her life is forcing the issue for her, and really "him" whoever he is. I could just back tf off which is probably the right move, and maybe she will come chase, but I don't know if that's the power move here. Thoughts?
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Well why tf would she even tell u about that other dude.. because of "not 100% single but certainly not taken" it could be that she likes you and almost wants to show off like hey dude im a high value girl a lot of guys want me but im certainly not taken so play your cards right and you can be the one who ends up with me
Either that or shes in love with the other dude and is legit just nice enough to give u a heads up, impossible to tell whats going on in her mind man
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Bro just want to say how much I appreciate your contribution here and responding to my post. It's honestly frustrating how much I contribute to other guys' posts with, at minimum, a valuable and legit perspective - and then maybe once outta 15-20 times I contribute, I ask for feedback myself and a few guys do occasionally contribute like Hey Trouble, Chris, Chaz, Guy - but it's mostly crickets and so I'm not sure how valuable it is for me to be spending time here, contributing to mostly newbies who add zero value, just take take take and then ask for more.
Add to that I honestly get better results just following Juliens game stuff, and these lines and takeaways I think are doing more harm than good. Girls know when you're using gimmicky lines, even if/when they haven't specifically heard them before. I'm really questioning the value proposition here. With all due respect to Alex who provides this totally free forum and even contributes free advice occasionally.