I think she had "just joined" yesterday or Monday. Had a great 3 or 4 back and forths but stalled out around 3pm yesterday, she didn't respond to my answer which wasn't a question. Then today she's changed her main profile pic and another pic. And not responded. I figure I gotta keep going or she'll forget about me, especially being brand new and hot. So I double texted with this. Let me know your feedback.
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Did she respond? I dont think its a good idea to bombard her with questions pretty much back to back like this. I would have just asked "happy wednesday chelsea, are u from here originally btw?" or use a takeaway like "am i wrong". Other then that i agree with jan
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Yeah I like your response better, thanks man. It's not 'too much', following her lack of response. The just joined girls rarely if ever work out for me, especially if they're really new to Hinge. they get bombarded plus the emotional and mental side of dealing with the messages, undoubtedly some crazies, getting triggered, getting nervous...I just don't have the answers for this. My intent with the follow up 3-question blitz was to convey, "hey I like you so far and this is a fun Convo but I need a few more deets before closing you, what ya got?"
Also the response Jan thought could be better, she actually gave that one a heart. I'm always looking for ways to genuinely connect because that builds real comfort, which in my experience leads to actual dates
Oh ya, no response so far. No more updates to her profile either. Lord knows how many damn messages she got swamped with lol
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ja she gave that one a heart but didnt respond to it at all. sometimes when a girl doesent know what to respond, she will just like/heart the message and i honestly think thats what happened here