We met up once at a nice Italian bistro near her hotel, where she stays weeknights north of me. Weekends she's south of me with her dog and 22 year old daughter. We went back to her hotel lobby and had one more drink, her adult daughter was texting her to make sure she was behaving lol but we had a great make out session with some built in humor around a concierge seeing us. Back on bumble I told her what a great time I had and she replied the same, then we moved to texting. She's a bit older than me but looks amazing. She's definitely more of a traditional career woman than I usually date but she was super into me, investment and connection and now, nothing. We even talked how ghosting sucks and it's so easy to show basic courtesy to anyone who isn't a horrible date. Anyway important to note All that happened before this text thread started Advice??

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I get that u like her man but its time to move on. She hasnt texted u since september 29th. Even if something bad did happen (lets be honest the chances of that are like 5%) but even so, if she cared and liked you im sure she would be able to take 2minutes in the past 14 days to text you back and inform u of her situation

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First and last points very valid. Been almost 3 weeks since she responded. And yeah, takes 40 seconds to respond.

Chance something bad happened?

-her Dad died unexpectedly in July
-she has a 30 year old son who wasn't supposed to live past age 21
-she hasn't been up to work in weeks

That's part of why I think I've been over the top nice even when she ignored, aside from my own challenges and areas that need improvement in text/OLD game. Hoping Alex sees this too and has a thought

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Aha in that case you could have said "hope nothing bad happened, im here for you in case it did"

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