I met a girl for the first time and we hung out for about 5 hours. I couldn't pull her back to my place because of bad logistics, but I made the moves. I met her at the mall, pulled her to my car and drove her and we chilled at a lookout, massaged her hand, then held hands, I was rubbing her legs, I kept saying how soft her legs are, then I grabbed her head and kissed her lips when I dropped her off at her house. She was compliant to everything and never gave me any bad signals by pulling away at anything. My biggest mistake is I didn't invite myself up to her place. I dropped her off and left... but idk maybe I could've just said "can i come upstairs to your room and chill for a bit?". I was just nervous and I need some guidance. When I got home I texted her "That was š„" and she responded "That was really fun". Now, I don't know what to do next.... Do I leave her on read so she can digest the date and wait a bit until her emotions fade before I initiate contact again to set up a 2nd date? What about the point of no return?
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Do you have any suggestions on what the 2nd date should be in my situation would it be weird if I asked to come over to her place?
I want to suggest to meet at her place or mine instead and see if she would be down for that
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Why don't you just invite her over to your place and see what she says? You could also do something nearby where you live and then go back to your place.