Dating profile updated... 2 grand in updated wardrobe and photoshoot...

(It's not uploading in the same order that is displayed on my profile so idgaf) 1 headshot 2 walking black jacket 3 camera stand photo 4 guitar 5 pet dog Here's my bio 6'1 | Sexologist My Passion is travelling around the world and seductively whispering French in your ear. Looking for a cool girl who enjoys a mix of Rough and Sensual. Strengths: Being dominant,BDSM, Cracking inappropriate jokes, and Cuddling. Weaknesses: Great ass and Accents. Prompts( photo attached) Tried Alex's reccomended bios (youtube video) And none worked so I just went with his as a last resort Any feedback is reccomended by all means be harsh when you critisize me

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Herb S

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You sound desperate in this reply and also one earlier.
You have literally gotten a ton of feedback! Compare this to other threads on here, you have 23 replies...

You coming off as desperate on here also means you come off as desperate on your texting interactions and is maybe why you're not seeing so much success yet. People pick up on that.
Look, you've made the effort and your pics are good, ahead of most guys on Tinder. Take what you have now and over time do more shoots and so on.

But your bio just doesn't match your pics. As said match the bio to your pics, then it's more congruent and less like putting on an act and it'll be easier.
Most people don't have a chaddy sexologist profile and perfectly get laid. It doesn't seem natural to you, so don't try to fake it.

You need to maybe also step back a bit and re-evaluate things a bit. That might help also.

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Dan M

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Thanks for the reply
None of the feedback so far has solved my issue bro, that's why I'm here again

I've listed the issues people aren't explaining to me..

  1. "Bio not congruent" t

Ok yes good..... so what is a good bio to go with these photos?
(I tried for over a week now with no result)
One guy just earlier told me to use his... I did... did not work. So now I'm trying again.

  1. "Not jacked enough"
    Yes I'm lacking muscle ok yes....however I do go the gym already...-- that still doesn't explain 0 matches.... so what is the problem besides lack of muscle? Plenty of guys have less muscle like myself and still get matches there is something else wrong.

  2. "The way you are pulling your face bro"

OK what's wrong? How should I pull my face?

None is answering my concerns specifically enough

Thanks

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Do you like wine ?

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No offence people have given you plenty. I.e you could get a candid one looking at the camera for one. Two buy a beer put said beer in front of you at a bar, take photo

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Herb S

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  1. There's plenty of "review my Tinder profile" posts on here to get some inspiration what other people have in their bio. It's also not the most important thing in the world.

  2. So, you're not muscly. Grand, neither am I. Keep going to the gym, work on it, but it's also not the key part and hard to change in a day.

  3. Look at other posts here. E.g. this one from the other day: https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/made-some-changes-to-my-profile-any-comments-welcome
    This guy has nice expressions. Check other posts, read the feedback, learn from it, try it, rinse, repeat!
    Have a look this post by me that might help with some more ideas: https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/resources-for-photoshootsposes

Noone is going to spoon-feed you here beyond what you've been given already.

Also, you're getting 0, zero, matches? I can't believe that. How long have you had this profile? How large is your city you live in?

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