Dating profile updated... 2 grand in updated wardrobe and photoshoot...
2 Posts (-3), 28 Cmts (+17)
(It's not uploading in the same order that is displayed on my profile so idgaf)
1 headshot
2 walking black jacket
3 camera stand photo
4 guitar
5 pet dog
Here's my bio
6'1 | Sexologist
My Passion is travelling around the world and seductively whispering French in your ear.
Looking for a cool girl who enjoys a mix of Rough and Sensual.
Strengths: Being dominant,BDSM, Cracking inappropriate jokes, and Cuddling.
Weaknesses: Great ass and Accents.
Prompts( photo attached)
Tried Alex's reccomended bios (youtube video)
And none worked so I just went with his as a last resort
Any feedback is reccomended by all means be harsh when you critisize me
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12 Posts (+0), 66 Cmts (+15)
The hair is an issue, try a low fitting curled brim hat.
Turtle neck would suit you have a long neck.
Ok here’s my 2 cent pictures are good I would probably take a pic with the dog instead of just a dog pic. I would take out “ looking for a cool girl who enjoys rough and sensual. I would also take out cracking inappropriate jokes.
2 Posts (-3), 28 Cmts (+17)
What type of photo with the dog
Selfie?
Lying on floor next to the dog?
Patting the dog?
What specifically lol
2 Posts (-3), 28 Cmts (+17)
Can somebody please just tell me exactly what to do
I'm so seriously confused and I'm not gonna do another photoshoot untill the information is specific
Otherwise its a waste of money
Literally just specify what type of photos
My problem is not just lack of muscle there is clearly more issues but I have no idea where to start
Please help
You sound desperate in this reply and also one earlier.
You have literally gotten a ton of feedback! Compare this to other threads on here, you have 23 replies...
You coming off as desperate on here also means you come off as desperate on your texting interactions and is maybe why you're not seeing so much success yet. People pick up on that.
Look, you've made the effort and your pics are good, ahead of most guys on Tinder. Take what you have now and over time do more shoots and so on.
But your bio just doesn't match your pics. As said match the bio to your pics, then it's more congruent and less like putting on an act and it'll be easier.
Most people don't have a chaddy sexologist profile and perfectly get laid. It doesn't seem natural to you, so don't try to fake it.
You need to maybe also step back a bit and re-evaluate things a bit. That might help also.
2 Posts (-3), 28 Cmts (+17)
Thanks for the reply
None of the feedback so far has solved my issue bro, that's why I'm here again
I've listed the issues people aren't explaining to me..
- "Bio not congruent" t
Ok yes good..... so what is a good bio to go with these photos?
(I tried for over a week now with no result)
One guy just earlier told me to use his... I did... did not work. So now I'm trying again.
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"Not jacked enough"
Yes I'm lacking muscle ok yes....however I do go the gym already...-- that still doesn't explain 0 matches.... so what is the problem besides lack of muscle? Plenty of guys have less muscle like myself and still get matches there is something else wrong. -
"The way you are pulling your face bro"
OK what's wrong? How should I pull my face?
None is answering my concerns specifically enough
Thanks
12 Posts (+0), 66 Cmts (+15)
I personally think all these photos are mediocre.
Why aren’t you looking into the camera at all?
I don’t think putting your height actually dioes anyone favours unless they’re 6’4.
Way too sexual.
I have reverse parking, piggy backs, margarita making, oral skills
Weaknesses: a great ass
15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
I had the same thoughts at Luis before reading his comment.
You come off as a nice guy in these photos (the quality are great). More wholesome. It doesn't match your bio. Photo 3 is the only one you look a little more rugged and tough.
The bio reads as a f*ck boy, someone like Alex (which isn't an insult)
I realize you already mentioned this but, yes, you definitely needed some wax to comb/style your hair.
2 Posts (-3), 28 Cmts (+17)
What can I do to not come across as a nice guy I genuinely have no idea how
2 Posts (-3), 28 Cmts (+17)
Because I'm a balding fuck that's why it looks dogshit (unless I wax it up)
How can I not come across as a nice guy
8 Posts (+15), 334 Cmts (+93)
personally i wouldn't try to stop coming off as a nice guy. but rather make the bio match the style of the pictures.
one thing is not to make it generic and possibly add humor.
this is mine, you could tweak it to fit your own interests:
Into health, fitness, and personal growth.
Do dancing, jiu jitsu, lifting, and running.
Love spending time with my dog and going to the park.
Let's go karaoke, dancing, horror movies, and random adventures.
Handsome, charming, successful, and humble.
15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
Yeah, for the photos at least it would have benefited you to style the hair.
Well, your photos I don't think are bad and would definitely attract more wholesome/relationship type girls without a doubt. However, if your goal is to be more like your bio and looking to just smash chicks it's just adjusting the facial expression a bit different and posing with different body language.
Photo 2 is a quality photo but it seems too lighthearted and peaceful
Photo 4 you have a big smile and office nerd type vibes. You don't look like the kind of guy that is going to give it to a girl rough and dominate her.
Photo 5 for example, the black jacket/outfit is badass! I think if you weren't smirking and had a more serious look like in photo 3 you would come off tough and masculine.
8 Posts (+15), 334 Cmts (+93)
i think your pics are mostly fine. not a huge fan of the hairstyle but it's not too bad.
however imo, the bio does not really match with the pics.
2 Posts (-3), 28 Cmts (+17)
What hairstyle u reckon is better? Ironically I usually wax that shit up and back but I forgot thr wax that day :c
8 Posts (+15), 334 Cmts (+93)
i think the profile is good as is. i would tweak the bio to be more congruent with the pics. also work on instagram and link it if it's good enough.
in the mean time try to play with haircuts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6MqiFl9XWF8
i have the same type of receding hairline, i rock the messy longish hair.
would also suggest you get more jacked and then even super short hair will look good.
just my 2c
You look too thin and also you're clearly balding. Get those two issues fixed and you should start to see more success on tinder.
2 Posts (-3), 28 Cmts (+17)
Thanks, btw how do you join the mastermind group? Seems to be a malnfunction on my end
55 Posts (+3), 250 Cmts (-275)
You're not good looking enough to look away from the camera tbh.
Be original don't just copy Alex bio. Blank profile is better than what you have tbh. Can't have everything spoon fed to you bro
9 Posts (+4), 40 Cmts (+3)
Hey man, I feel your frustration. I just did my second photoshoot.. the first one was a bust literally got 0 matches and I submitted it here and got them rated by the team of hot girls from John Anthony Lifestyles and they said my pics were too monotonous/overdone etc.
My second photoshoot I just submitted here everyone was saying it was posed/bad etc. I created a tinder last night using 3 of the pro photos and as of now I got 1 match with a 7.5-8 girl so that's huge for me considering I got 0 results before and 2 likes right now. But one is trans and the other is overweight lol.
John just sent me the feedback from the girls on my 2nd photoshoot 30 min ago.
My top pic got rated a 7.6.. the other 4 they chose were in the low 7 range. They said my pics were monotonous/same frame lighting etc.
I've done catfish experiments before where i got guys with boring backgrounds breaking all the rules that Alex and these guys say about online photos and they gets tonss of matches. It really comes down to face and picture quality I'm starting to believe.
Try using faceapp man, that will enhance your photos. I'm using it as well. I'm going to install hinge and bumble probably and use the pics the girls rated as the top 5 and see what results I get on there.
2 Posts (-3), 28 Cmts (+17)
The problem is that I have no idea what type of photos to take now the closest I had to an idea of what to do was following Alex's photos and it didn't work I'm so lost right now
The pool of potential outcomes is far too high alex needs to give better specific advice
12 Posts (+0), 66 Cmts (+15)
No dude you just need to be honest with yourself and have realistic expectations.
The jacket outfit suits you best go buy a beer put the beer in the table and get someone or a timer to take a photo.